“Games are easy, Just know the rules”- Someone nowhere.
Okay. Heard enough of being a better version of yourself right? I don’t rant in here. I want to do this thing. To be better one each day- to learn, to implement. Who am I? An experienced entrepreneur, 5 huge enterprises and 2 US degrees.(lol bruh, kidding. Hell no. I just passed my high school.)
You might have known from my “not so funny but himself thinks it to be damn funny” artisode. Yes yes. Guessed it right. The Chief Cynic here. My artisodes here might generate a little or no value to you(who knows might create a lot?) But, the matter of fact is my belief in my artisodes. I know they are just some personal highs and lows, a write up from a teen, but then too, I believe they are if some value to me and to you. Striving to be a better human everyday, this is what I do. Make myself better in each of my write ups. I’ve been doing this better version of yourself thing from over a year, and basically, it builds you as a human being, and I swear there are no jokes in this statement.
Too much of emotional shit eh? Let’s leave it behind then. If you are still reading this after such self centered arrogant monologue from me, (why the heck would I be Chief Cynic anyways) then you might as well want to take a look down under. Top 10 golden formulae to be grow yourself better each day. (I know that’s too much. Bargain? You win. Top 4 then.)
Here we go.
Wait for them, don’t make them wait
I was waiting for a friend at his gate to catch up a class today morning. His 5 minutes of “I left already” changed to 17 minutes and I saw his figure appearing slowly from his main entrance.(yeah dramatic I know. I swear to God all except last part of his coming slow is true. He ran after he appeared. Doubt not, it still was 17 minutes.) That’s where I got this idea for this artisode.
I curse myself for not being able to get in time in any meetings with the octopi. But, being better than punctual might change the way you think or see things. If you’re early, it won’t do you any wrong, and a mug of coffee in never wrong. Believe me when I say this, when you are early, you think positive, you observe people, (fantasize?) And what not?
Meditate. Meditate ‘exclamation mark’. Meditate ‘question mark’. Meditate. Period. What you have? Anxiety? Nervousness? Deficiency of paying attention? Something else? Emotional hurdles? All question mark come down to one solution- meditation. Practice correct meditation correctly 5 to 30 minutes a day. REGULARLY. You are guaranteed of results. Experience speaking.
If not all, believe a little in yourself. If not at all, start it today. Why not speak with a jewelry of smile and a dab of steadiness? Why not wear that pink shirt you always wanted to wear? Why not jog to office? Why not? Ask yourself.
Set up a target. Daily targets. Treat yourself when you meet targets. Never stop learning, never stop building confidence.
No substitution for work. The most golden words. I repeat it again. No substitution for work. You might lie to others but not yourself. Your lie might be considered a truth after umpteenth of repetition. But, deep down you know, the guilt of your lie. So, don’t lie – start working. To rank yourself a little above yesterday, you must achieve at least something today, and each words in this statement have literal meaning. Something, that’d boost up your confidence to thrive for better tomorrow and smile before sleeping.
Written By The Chief Cynic